Question: I won't be able to date until I turn 28. Would this be a problem?

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Answer #1:

Education is always best. Dating will take up most of your time in school.
Wait til you graduate from school then go slow with dating.

Maybe you can find someone to study with or on your level of school.
It is always good to have someone for me time to relax once in a while.

But my suggestion is to you is to finish your schooling first and maybe
after that start dating slowly and see how it goes.

Answer #2:

Worry about med school. Girls will flock to you when you are successful. If you date girls who are in a similar situation to yourself, it will be less of an issue. You will probably find you are at similar levels of dating experience and maturity.

Answer #3:

Your parents messed you up pretty good. You should probably find someon at your school with a counseling background to help you work through these issues before they cause you to become some kind of sexual deviant who can't express his attraction in mature ways.

It sounds like you have been really sheltered. Trust me, your parents are not normal. You might one day find a girl from an equally twisted background, but it would be a whole lot healthier for you to join the mainstream You should get out and get some experience in the real world.

Try going to a bar and picking up a girl who will give you sex. The ones who wear really little skirts and get drunk are usually asking for it. They will teach you how to do things that will help you learn what you are missing. Usually you don't need to call them afterward or worry about a relationship, so this shouldn't interfere with your studies.

Answer #4:

Well, I'm in this situation already. I mean, although I'm in high school I have a lot of work to do outside my curricular life and inside. I have no time for my friends whatsoever at the minute, no time for family, no time for even relaxing. Just time to pursue what I need to.

I've recently been a relationship with all this pressure upon me, and it was kind of hard. You have to focus the majority of your time on your work, but I cannot speak for you. I can only tell you what I did. If you do end up in a relationship you have to make lots of time for that one person. In my case, my boyfriend understood I was busy. He noticed how I would run around everywhere like a lunatic. I told him I can't spend most of my time with him, and he understood completely. When I wasn't so overwhelmed with all my work, I spent my time with him. When I was busy, he gave me space to complete what I needed to.

The thing is that, you are trying to work and you want to balance a relationship, possibly. You just need to tell a girl that you are a busy guy, and if you can follow through then make some time for her. If you are stacked with a lot of work then maybe you should just wait. Wait until you're twenty eight, that will give you time to focus on what's nessescary. Either way, you know that you will stumble across a crush when you're working, and I'd gather that you might date someone along the way. It's not entirely possible for you to be working straight for six years without spotting someone attractive. Do what's best in your eyes. If you want a relationship, then go for it, but be aware of making time for a girl and balancing that with work. If not, then continue what you are doing.





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